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writes:how do i get the dood i want??? He's really attractive and he plays sports but he's cocky and tends to be selfish. i really like him and he can really be so good to me . Reply to this Question
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reader, Odds +, writes (24 September 2010):
 "he can really be so good to me ."Not sure what you mean by that. Has he been good to you, or do you imagine he could if you were together?As for the cocky and selfish behavior, well, that's part of why you're attracted to him. Your rational brain is against it, but the animal brain (the part that determines when you're horny) loves it. So, be aware that your feelings are not necessarily in your best interest. Try to determine whether or not he is even ready to commit to an exclusive relationship before you make a move.Strontium's right, he'll have options. If you want to beat the competition, you'll have to make it clear that you'd be a better girlfriend than any of them.I'll assume you have a good idea of the right things to do. So, to stand out, just avoid the usual things that girls do and guys have to put up with: no drama, no putting him down to your girlfriends, no flaking on him, and no trying to steal him away from his friends.
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reader, Viajante  +, writes (24 September 2010):
Is the dood you want the best for you? I mean, do you actually know him, or do you just have the hots for him? It sounds like you just have the hots for him. I'd say take your time.
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