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writes:my bestmate is very pretty. shes the works basicaly. and its becoming a habbit now that my guys fancy her. ino she cant help it but its realy buggin me. like yesterday me, her, this guy who fancies me and his mate went out. now the guy who fancied me is into her. im not bothered cos i didnt want too date him. but its annoyin that im not pretty enough for guys cos all they see is her.i dont realy see what guys see in her other than looks. as a girl we can talk about girl stuff but other than that she doesnt have a good conversation. i have loads of guy mates. and theres this one guy who i realy fancy. and now im scared if we get close enough with her around he will go for her. im at breaking point! if it happens another time im scared i will start pushing her away. she is full of herself and when i tell her about it she says its just a joke. but she nos she is pretty. what should i do? i cant stand too lose this guy aswell too her. or infact any other guy. Reply to this Question
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (11 November 2007):
 don't worry your self ok there are plenty of men out there and if they want they will be with you not your friend ok and don't be scared about this new guy you have an eye for go for it and if it doesn't work well move on and don't worry
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reader, Happy to be me  +, writes (11 November 2007):
Okay first off if all the guys see is good looks they are shallow and not worth your time!!! I am in a similar sittuatoin right now. I have had three best friends since ever. Well now they are cheerleaders and very very pretty. I got really upset when guys I liked wanted them. Later I found out that there raltoinships ended really badly because the guys wanted them for the wrong reasons. now I am in a relatoiship with this amazing guy and when I asked him what hethought about my freinds he said,"he thought they were shallow. And I said," No i mean do you think they are pretty? He said," I dont know all i see is you!" So when you meet the right guy he will want you for the right reasons and thats something your friend might not have. And for you guy friend if its meant to be he will se only you. Hope this helped!!! If you have any more questoins( I know what your going threw) just send me a message and ill get bac to you as soon as possible!!! =-)
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