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writes:Hi6 years ago I was seeing this guy for about 6 months, when the relationship fizzled and we parted ways abruptly. At the time, I found him really attractive and felt that we really connected, but having him in my life was really hard work. I have never seen or heard from him again since.I then moved on and eventually got married to another incredible guy. We have been married for about 4 years, and during the first 4 years not once have I though about my ex. But lately, I have found myself thinking about my ex all the time. It is really starting to concern me, becasue I can't get my ex out of my mind. Any one had a similar experience? Anyone have any idea on how I can get over him...or get some closure?? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): I undestand your situation I had closed myself off to new relationships, you will always think about your ex from time to time it does get easier right now my nerves are raw from the last relationship, my ex moved on I haven't. I would do what I always did and that is to write a letter to your ex (DON'T MAIL IT) about the crap your ex put you through, it is worth a try
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): I think it is just how some people's brains work. I try never to think about my ex's ever. But they were two of the worst people on this earth that i could of met, certainly dont hanker after either of them, so i never think of them unless i am having a brain storm.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (11 November 2007):
 I tend to agree with Peoriaman that something may be missing from your current relationship which has you thinking back to your ex. I would encourage you to work out what ever is wrong with your current relationship and then maybe these thoughts will go away. Maybe it's just getting too comfortable? Try putting some mystery back into your relationship. I think of an ex here and there but it's usually as Peoriaman says that I wish a trait they had or something they did would be done by my current partner. Then you just need to work on that. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): Read "He's Just Not That Into You" to . And then think about your husband as the one who is. Great book.
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