A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've just started a new relationship but cannot tell how enthusiastic she is about things. I understand that these things can't be rushed and I don't want to ruin things by being too full on but I'm getting jealous about the fact that she is always staring at 'hot' men. She used to be a gymnast and a diver and I'm fully aware she is used to and has been around many fit, attractive, manly guys of which I am not (just average in attractiveness, the others not at all). Especially seeing as I think she may fancy or fancied my housemate who is a machine of a man and very charasmatic and attractive. I can sense the natural attraction he gives off and she was always staring at him.I just can't help help but feel inferior and jealous in everyway which I'm fully aware is the biggest turn off there is!! How can I start to not worry and get over my inferiority complex and learn to ignore the fact that the new girl i'm seeing will find other men more attractive!?? ..... or should I not accept that at all!?
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (19 August 2012):
Of course she will find other men more attractive. You can find other women more attractive. The point is whether she chooses you or no.
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