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female
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41-50,
*hin
writes:How can I in back my husband if he still cheats on me for almost 10 years. He give more time and even spend most of his life with his high school buddies. Actually he had an illicit affair with his Highschool girlfriend until now. And he even had more illicti realtionship with various women. one more thing, he had bear a child to one of his mistress. What will I do cause everytime we argue on this he keeps on telling me that all is not true please help me with this., Im still in love with him and we are married with 4 kids thank you
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reader, Blonde68  +, writes (3 February 2011):
For me your title says it all... "my cheating husband"! That is what he is, and doubt he will ever change... if he geninuely loved you he would never have cheated on your once, never mind several times.
If you seriously want to make a go of it and believe that you can put all this behind you then I suggest you both get some marriage counselling. But seriously, do you really want to be with a man who behaves in this manner... retain some dignity and get out if he isn't willing to try counselling.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (3 February 2011):
 He'll never stop cheating. You need to decide if that's something you're willing to live with. If not, then you two can't be together.
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reader, TEM +, writes (3 February 2011):
 His behavior is extreme and you sound as if you are near the breaking point. My advice it to tell him you will divorce, or leave him, him unless he stops cheating. If he denies cheating you must tell him you have absolute proof and know it to be true. Don't let him continue to get away with his lies.
It's up to you. Do you want to continue to live this life? I do not know if marriage counseling is available in your country. If there is, or something like that available to you, you must ask tell your husband that you need to work on your marriage together. You have four children. I am sorry for your pain.
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