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anonymous
writes:There is this guy in my circle of friends that I can’t help but think of a lot.We are just semi newly acquainted friends. I see him checking me out. I purposely wear cute clothes so he can notice me and it works. We’ve gotten to the stage (kind of) where we touch arms when we talk or I’ll touch him to compliment him and vice versa. There is this girl I know likes him, and he’s been friends with her for much longer than we’ve known each other. I feel her getting jealous when we are together and will get his attention when she sees us talking. I don’t know if I am falling in love, or if it’s just a sexual lust.I have this ___ feeling for this guy and don’t know what to do. How can I get his attention when she is always taking it away?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2007): well get his number and talk to him there.....try to get a date with him...somewhere where that other girl would not go and dont let her find out about it
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (3 February 2007):
 Just continue doing what you're doing, it's obviously working. Continue to look great when you meet up with him, laugh, smile and be assertive and happy. (Guys like assertive women.) Don't moan or bitch about others but let your personality shine through. If he really likes you just be patient, I'm sure he'll make his move in time. ;o)
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reader, cd206 +, writes (2 February 2007):
 Neither of you have asked this guy out right? Well then the way I see it is that you haver nothing to lose by trying it. Think how much you'd kick yourself if a few weeks down the line she asks him out and he says yes simply because she asked him first.
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