A
male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I'm 13 and Im not sure if I am Gay or Bi. Recently I've been looking at half Naked pictures of Boys and then Girls when I look it the boys I go hard straight away and usually think their really hot but with girls I look at the boobs and don't get hard. I had a girlfriend last year and only went out with her because I was trying to prove myself at least bi but when It came to the part where we nearly kissed It didn't feel right and then I fantisise about having a boyfriend and kissing him all the time and it feels so good. I've been like this since I was 10 but only now I feel like I'm atracted to men and not women, does that necessairily mean I've gone through that part of puberty? I have friends that are straight I don't feel atrackted to them but I would like to know how to know if one of the people in my school is gay so I can compare! How do I know if they are Gay?
View related questions:
boobs, kissing, nude pictures Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (18 April 2010):
You don't even know if you're gay half the time, how do you think you'd be able to spot another? At your age, it may not be as easy to tell. But I've known men from elementary school that grew up to be gay, and from the time I knew what gay was, I knew they were gay. You can't tell with all men, some men are gay and are still masculine. However, usually a gay man acts a lot more feminine than a straight man will. It's usually pretty easy. Sometimes you can be wrong though. Just don't worry about it so much, you have plenty of time.
|
