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51-59,
*nnsumm
writes:Ive been dating this guy for about a year on and off. We have slept together, he is 44 and I am 39, both divorced. Earlier this year I ended it because I found him on dating sites and was very upset but then I went back to him because I missed him so much. A few weeks ago he was on there again (i dont use them but a few of my close friends do and he doesn't know this!) with an active profile, looking for dates, had a picture on there and everything ! I tackled him AGAIN, he said he was just looking and pulled it off. BUT he has put another profile on Match and is paying for it because he messaged one of my friends! I don't trust him at all now but I feel very inadequate and its eating away at me constantly. I probably should have never gone back there but I did and I am hurting now, need to end it but don't know how to. Don't want to play games as its not in my nature at all.
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reader, annsumm +, writes (10 September 2008):
annsumm is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi all,
update here...... i just found out today that he has been sleeping with someone else whilst he was with me and she doesn't know about me either. He is a rat, i feel so numb but now i know the truth about him.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (2 September 2008):
 Sweetheart, leave this guy before he leaves you. He is active on dating sites because he is looking for someoen else. As soon as he does, you wont see his rse for dust hunni. THATS going to hurt a whole lot more!
Atleast if you get out, before he does, you are in control. Keep that control, because when he has finished using you til someone else comes along, which you already know he is, your self asteem will be in the gutter. Retain some pride woman and wake up and smell the coffee for exactly how it is!
Then get yourself on a dating site and meet someone decent!
Ok maybe not yet, but you know what i mean!
Good luck.
C XXXXX
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reader, annsumm +, writes (2 September 2008):
annsumm is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, thanks, you are so right. Its just so difficult because when I am with him it all feels so right.
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