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writes: ok I have these two cousins who I'm attracted to and I think they might think the same. But I am not sure.One is 29 and the other one is 21.I'm 28. I am really close to both of them. I mean we can talk about anything. Relationship problems, money problems, sex life etc. well for starters I can't stop dreaming about them when I'm around them. all I want to do is just kiss them or touch them but I don't know how would they would feel about it. well it comes down to how can I be sure or how can I see if they would feel the same?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the reply, I just really needed to talk about to someone and I no it's kinda weird but I can't help how I feel.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (27 April 2011):
 If you like both of them, then neither of them is right, and since they are your cousins, I don't think kissing them both is suitable. They are your family, I don't think you should use them for a casual affair.
I'm not even sure that it's legal in the part of America where you live.
Try to find another girl to date, someone your not related to, and then you can kiss her all you like and not worry about hurting someone's feelings.
You can be attracted to anyone, but when that person is a family member or close friend, stay away unless you are very, very serious about them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): They're your cousins...even if you're both attracted to each other it's not really right to pursue a relationship with someone in your family.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): look, i'm sorry honey but these are your cousins, it just doesn't seem right to be attracted to them. i remember i was helping my dad move one time and i saw this really cute guy and was like "mmm who is that?" and my dad said "that's your cousin" mind you i hadn't seen him in awhile and he had gone through a growth spurt and had longer hair but i was still really embarrassed as was my cousin. so find yourself someone else and stay away from family members.
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