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anonymous
writes:hi there, Im 18 and have been seeing this guy for about 8 months we are not exactly an item but we text each other every day and see each other about 3 times a week, he was my first love when i was 14 and he was 16, but my parents thought he was too old for me so wouldnt allow us to see each other.But we got back in touch about 8 months ago. he has told me he loves me but he doesnt know whether it is as a friend or more.i have told him i love him, but i dont know what to do as every time i try to talk to him about whether we should get back together he avoids the subject. he has said that its partly because i am moving to another country, but i have told him that i dont have to move if i have a reason to stay (him), yet still he avoids the subject. he tells me things like the fact that im the first thing that he thinks of when he wakes up and that when ive been to his house and we have watched a film upstairs he says he can still smell me on his bed,and that its a good thing that he can smell me as it smells nice. so my question is why is he avoiding the subject and how can i convince him that i would stay for him if he wants me to and that we could work?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): To be honest with you and I know it hurts, it sounds like he's not interested. He's still a boy and boys dont want to settle down, never mind having to be with you a lot when your family move away.
If you have cared about him this long then he's obviously missing out on a good thing, and maybe on purpose, find out whether he's got another girl on his mind.
If not I think the best thing you can do is to tell him the truth, tell him that you do want a relationship with him again & that you have done since you had to split up, but seen as theres nothing holding you back this time then its up to him or he's going to loose you aswell as your friendship. Because you can't remain friends with someone when there feelings going on.
If he doesnt give you the answer your looking for I think it's best you do move, then mayeb he might realise what he's lost.
Best of luck x
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