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How can I come across as shy not rude and deal with his family on Christmas?

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Question - (14 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 December 2008)
A female United Kingdom, *tarisrocks writes:

my bf mum has invited me round for a pre christmas dinner. there is going to be my bf his parents 3 brothers his brother fiancee 2 uncles 1 aunt and his gran.

ive met his brothers parents brother fiancee and 1 uncle.

my worry is i will freeze up and seem rude coz im not speaking also i find it hard to give eye contact as get told im rude for that.

my other worry is that they are very open on bodily functions that dinner turns into a fart and burping contest and they fight over food and card games especially when they have been drinking this behavior is all new to me so im scared ive got a whole evening of it.

how can i not come across as rude just shy and how can i get used to the farting and fighting

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008):

dw i have that feeling too sort of

just let your bf know and he can help you

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008):

Dont over think it too much because that will just cause you to be even more nervous..Maybe have a glass of wine when you get there,relax! Start up a conversation..you will be with your guy,so being around him must make you alittle more comfortable..Maybe tell your bf your alittle nervous and he will re-assure you..just dont fart or fight,you are still a lady.just be light hearted and laugh.

good luck girl!:)xxooo

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