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writes:I am a 19 year old sophomore in college. I have been with my boyfriend of 2 years since we finished high school, he is a year older than me. I love him so much, and that's why i cant let him go even though i know he's not who i want. He has a dead end job working as a sales person at circuit city, he's still living at his mom's house, buys me dinner but spends most of his money on his mustang, etc. I have broken up with him so many times, the thing is he won't let go, he keeps calling, comes to my house, tells me he is gonna change, but when i take him back he never changes. I know i dont want him for my future and i should just end it with him, but he won't get off my back. what do i do? i have tried everything. How do i make him understand I don't want to be with him anymore?
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (30 July 2007):
 I was in a similar situation years ago. He was 10 years younger. Loved him loads but i knew while he was in his early 20's he had a lot of living to do. He didnt think so, but instincts told me he was just high on the family thing. Ive got 2 kids & if i didnt have kids i might of taken the gamble.
So eventually i ended it for good. We would split and get back together loads like you 2.
It broke my heart for about a year. But i just didnt contact him again & he didnt me, so we were both lucky really. But i can speak to him now & have no feelings for him whatsoever.
See him about sometimes & we txt now n then. & we get on great as mates. apart from a troubled relationship recently hes been having a ball & playing the field since we split 3 yrs ago, so i was right about him.
If you really really really want out, be strong, tell him, stick to it, and dont reply to his calls txt etc.
Its gonna be hell! But whats the alternative. Go round in circles for the next few months til you end up hating each other? then the end does get messy!
Good luck
C xxxxxxxx
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (30 July 2007):
 He keeps coming back because you keep taking him back. Tell him that you want to move on and that he should do the same. This time don't answer his calls and don't let him in your house when he comes over. He'll get the idea.
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