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My husband's double life of cheating and a baby?

Q.   Hi Hope you take the time and read my post. I have been married 22yrs together for 32yrs, just over 2yrs ago i found out my h/b had been cheating on me at frist i thought it was the only time so i forgave him after several months i found out ther...

A.   18 September 2010: You poor thing! What a trauma to have gone through. You do not deserve this. Are you particularly close to any family member - a sister, parent, cousin or even a very dear friend? You need to be straight with them and tell them everything that's ... (read in full...)

Is it always left for the guy to call or text?

Q.   Your advice PLEASE! Is it always left for the guy to call or text? Basically make the first move.. That's when you're getting to know someone and planning a first date. ...

A.   7 January 2009: Not at all :) But that's no reason for you to hold back. Even if a girl says "no" or it turns out that she is already in a relationship, she will still be flattered and appreciate the compliment. What have you got to lose?... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is a compulsive liar, he said he cannot stop lying so I broke up with him. Good decision?

Q.   Hi I really need some advice. Me and my boyfriend were going out for 8 months, but he was a compulsive liar. We have sat down and he has admitted the lying but says he cant stop it. He has told me every lie hes told. But he admitted to texting a ...

A.   10 September 2008: You most definitely made the right choice. It's not worth your time any more to worry about whether or not you made the right choice - one of the good things about not dating him any more is surely that you don't have to stress yourself out over ... (read in full...)

Why did she bleed?

Q.   i tried to hav sex wit my gf but could nt do it as it was our first time and it was hurting her.my penis didnt even go half way inside.we wer nt using a condom.the next day she had heavy bleeding also.wld she become pergnant???what could be the ...

A.   10 September 2008: Don't worry, it is very common for girls to bleed during and/or after their first time having sex. Maybe she started her period by coincedence. Please use a condom in future, it is SO easy to get pregnant or catch an STD. Don't be silly, wrap ... (read in full...)

Internet relationship - she cheated on me and the pain is just getting worse... Should I do the same to her?

Q.   My online girlfriend who lives 2000 miles away had a one night stand at a party with some random dude the second week of us knowing each other. What hurt the most was that she was talking to me that night on msn too, while at the party, and pretty ...

A.   10 September 2008: I'm so sorry to hear that this happened to you. I have before been in a similar situation myself. In my case, I was cheated on, I caught my boyfriend flirting on internet chatrooms on countless occasions and he kept lying about everything. After ... (read in full...)

How can I become more active during sex?

Q.   hey everybody i was just hoping for some advice for a really embarrassing situation im in so here goes... ive been together with my partner for about 8 months and he was the first one that i gave my virginity to and it was a really big thing...

A.   9 September 2008: Try asking him what he wants you to do for him. This will help you with ideas, but don't do anything that you're not comfortable with. If you're on top, move however it feels good for you because then it'll feel good for him too. Suggest trying ... (read in full...)

Am I just a sex buddy for him?

Q.   Hi, Please help me understand what a fuck buddy is and to clarify if my "boyfriend" is actually a fuck buddy. I met him about three months ago and he's been so busy with his work and business. I see him twice a week and sometimes once. Becau...

A.   9 September 2008: I don't think that this is necessarily a fuck buddy relationship, perhaps just not a healthy one. How you're feeling is perfectly understandable and my advice would be to end it with this guy and seek someone else who has the time and devotion to ... (read in full...)

Could I possibly be pregnant?

Q.   hi im 18 years old and bout 4 days ago me and my boyfriend had sex and he injected in me 3 times in a row and today i been feel kinda weird like my stomach feels like its getting tight every now and than and my breast been hurting a little and i ...

A.   9 September 2008: To be honest, 4 days isn't long enough for you to be getting any symptoms. Wait another couple of weeks and if you're still getting symptoms and haven't had a period get a test from a clinic, pharmacy or your doctor.... (read in full...)

I need flirting tips...anyone got any good ideas?

Q.   hey everyone im 15 and would really love some tips on the best ways to flirt with guys i have quite a few of guy friends just would like a boyfriend like, at parties or like bowling or something please give me some hints, im quite shy about ...

A.   8 September 2008: Sitting on his knee :) And if you're at a party and have been drinking you could probably get away with resting your head on his shoulder or nuzzling into him. If you both seem to be OK with this, try moving your face closer to him. Everyone ... (read in full...)

Does my vagina hurt because of the rough sex?

Q.   My boyfriend and I of a year, have been having sex for about 4/5 months. Sometimes, he wants sex when i don't but i don't tell him i don't want to but when we do, i like it and glad i do it. Last weekend, we had sex as soon as i came off my perio...

A.   8 September 2008: As far as I know it only hurts a guy if he gets carpet burn from your pubes or if you're not wet enough. And 3/4 times in a day is probably enough to cause you discomfort until later in the week. I'd suggest that if the problem persists you talk ... (read in full...)

I'm always the bridesmaid but never the bride!

Q.   i am in high school and i have never had a boyfriend, i have lots of guys who are friends, but i am always the friend and nothing more. please help..thanks....

A.   8 September 2008: Go out to parties with both your girl and guy friends to boost your confidence. Then take it from there...... (read in full...)

He's the love of my life but he doesn't trust me. Should I give up on him?

Q.   Hey... I'm so sad. I wish to stay single... I don't know, but after all that's been going on with my relationship, I feel un-confident... See, my boyfriend has problems with my past. Even though I never sletp with anyone before him, he think...

A.   7 September 2008: I would suggest that you give him an ultimatum and stick to it. Explain to him why his behaviour upsets you and tell him that he has one chance to really prove to you how much he means to you by giving up on the immaturity of his actions. He may ... (read in full...)

Is it ok for a 15-year-old to have sex with a 26-year-old?

Q.   Is it ok for a 15 year old male (me) to go out with a 26 year old women and have sex?? Any advice?...

A.   7 September 2008: Trust me, this is not OK. If anyone found out and reported to the police, she will then be charged with underage sex which will give her a criminal record and perhaps even a place on the sex offender's register. What's more, you'll be made to give ... (read in full...)

How can I make my boyfriend be more mature about my pregnancy?

Q.   how can i get my boyfriend to help with my pregnancy? ok .. well my boyfriend n i been together for a yeae..n hes been really happy lately because of our child. and i really love him and care bout him .. the thing is ,, hes always buyin vide...

A.   7 September 2008: Well done for being so responsible and committed to your unborn baby, especially seeing as you've had so little support. I would suggest that you make time, maybe go for a walk together or somewhere for coffee, where you can talk to him about ... (read in full...)

I slept with him hoping we'd get back together, does that work?

Q.   I just dont know what to do anymore, i think that im over my ex then i see him with another girl and i fall apart. we broke up more than a year ago but we slept together a while ago and i thought this might mean that we could get back together..I ...

A.   7 September 2008: OK I can relate to this hun. You obviously need help in moving on, which is fine. Be honest with a mate, two at the very most, that you COMPLETELY TRUST and tell them how you're feeling. My best mate made me a CD called "Your CD for getting over ... (read in full...)

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