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writes:First off, this may not seem real important to whomever is reading my problem, but it is for me, so bear with me?This guy and i were really tight on msn and were so close with each other (as friends you understand) until there was this time where he said he couldn't talk to me anymore all because of his girlfriend told him to stop all communications. I was so deeply hurt of that news, but i didn't show it because i knew he couldn't talk to me anymore so what would have been the point? Anyways, we both subscribed to youtube and had our channels and even were friends through that but just not too long ago, he "blocked" me. I don't see why?! :( I'm extremely distraught! It was only a week where i told him i can't come on for a week because of how i got into trouble and was off limits to the computer where he seems a little distant now. I wrote him back the day i could get back on again and he never replied and i knew he was on because of the things he was doing on MSN by posting new pics and such. So what could be the problem that he's acting this way? I just don't understand it... And i'm thinking if he really wanted to stop talking to me he'd take me off his buddy list, right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): You were getting closer to each other, i dont think that it would e okay for you if ur bf has done the same.Maybe she feels that this friendship might turn out to something else if it went on ad on. and remember boys ar boys he was probably fooling around a lil bit , his gf found out and because he loves her he stopped.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 October 2010):
You're a liability in her eyes. She made him choose. He chose her. That's all there is to it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): If you are so upset about this it sounds like you wanted something more so his girlfriend was right to get him to block you. How would you feel if your boyfriend was giving so much attention to another woman?
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reader, puregoldenrose +, writes (2 October 2010):
puregoldenrose is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut i don't see how she knows that we're close. Not that i expect this to be secret, but it seems as if he blabs everything that goes on or if she's getting suspicious of any acts, he says something to her to update her in some way. She knows we're friends. There was such a time where we were goofing off where i put his name on my display name and said since i did this and took this bold move, why not put my name and he got kinda aggressive there and said "I just can't!" so i backed up and remembered he had a girlfriend.
And to answer your question, yes, he's asked for a picture of me and on one or two occasions have asked to get on cam, but when we finally decided to get on, he got too nervous. Understand he's shy and same as i. I mean we clicked instantly and hung around frequently and took him months to finally ask for my picture, and i could tell he was getting more comfortable with me and not as shy, but just when you got comfortable, something would seem to go wrong and i know you're not to hate people, but i'm starting to hate this girl of his. She's taking something away from him. I can't figure what it is, but at the end of the day, it's his ultimate choice, right? So what right do i have to complain.. :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): I can't really say I know what's going on but here are some possibilities that come to mind: extremely jealous gf has him on lockdown and he's afraid that because you two are so close, you might IM him something she'll take wrong OR he's nervous about how close you two are getting...has he ever asked you for anything by the way? Pics? Cam?
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