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His g/f is pregnant yet he's sleeping with me & other girls, is he happy?

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Question - (25 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone

Ok i split up with my ex in october last year, anyway we have stayed good friends and since we split up we carried on sleeping together, untill januery this year when he got his gf who is now 3 months pregnent anyway before i found out she was pregnent i sleept with him as he said that they had split up which i knos for a fact now that they hadnt and are still together

But he has told me things since then like he wants blowjobs off of me and how he wants to sleep with me he also says that hes sleept with his gf best mate and im not sure wha to belive

Yes i still do liike him

but he cant be happy with his gf now to keep wanting to sleep with all these girls

Does it sound like hes happy to you?

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A female reader, DrPsych United Kingdom +, writes (25 July 2009):

DrPsych agony auntYou are asking the wrong question. It should be 'are you happy?'. If so, why are you settling for so little out of a relationship - he gets no strings attached sex from you, other women and then goes home to the mother of his child. It doesn't sound as if he has any respect for anyone, including himself. If he doesn't feel protective towards the girlfriend now she is pregnant then he never will. He is obviously not practising safe sex if there is a baby on the way so he could end up giving you rather more than a broken heart. I recommend you stop thinking about what he wants and how he feels about his girlfriend. Instead, think about yourself, your future happiness and what is going on with you that makes you settle for so very little.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009):

Oh I'd say he's thrilled. He sleeping with multiple girls and he's getting away with every bit of it. If he was truely unhappy with her then he would break up with her. Instead, he's enjoying her AND several others. This doesn't represent his unhappiness; it represents his cruelty and level of horny. His happiness is not what i'm concerned about anyway.

I'd worry more about his girlfriend and that poor baby inside of her! He/she will be born into a world in which its mother is alone and heartbroken because its father couldn't keep it in his pants. Either that or born into a world in which its mother is completely oblivious to her lyeing, cheating boyfriend.

Those who look upon the wrong and say nothing are in the wrong, are they not?

~Sy.

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A male reader, Red Green 0289 United States +, writes (25 July 2009):

I agree, he's REALLY HAPPY! He's getting alot of tail, and is not being held responsible.

YES -he's happy, he's just an imature ass...

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (25 July 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntHe got multiple women dangling and you are asking if he is happy...

Let me try to translate into womanize.

You can't possible be happy with your shoes because you keep on shopping for others.

Mothers of the world, take to your daugthers and give them a bloody clue as to how men think.

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