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writes:Its Driving Me Insane..!!Me and my boyfriend of 3 months are getting on really well.. however he is too honest of what his friends think of me.. none of them really like me even though they have never met me! It seems to be both of his girl and boy friends that are saying this too him.. i get upset when he tells me but he doesnt seem to understand why.. Am i wasting my time..?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007): hi there it seems to me that they have no reason to base their views on you as you have already said they dont know you. why dont you try going out with them and spending time with them and then they will hopefully see that you are a nice person and good for your partner and that you can become one of their freinds also. people are always suspicious at first of a new person but i dont think that they dislike you its only the fact that they dont know you well enough to comment give it a goyou have nothing to loose and if you dont all get on you still have your partner and you aint lost anything apart from a few folks you cant get on with
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007): Have you thought maybe he's talking baddly about you to his friends
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007): And his friends dicates your choice to be with him how exactly??
If my friends have a problem with my girlfriend, I might ask why, and even if I understand their plea for me to leave her, etc, do you think I would base my choice in partners on what they think is supposedly good or not for me? Come on!
Are you wasting your time? You're wasting time thinking like that! Unless your boyfriend and you have real problems between you two, I seriously don't see why their thoughts matter at all. If at the 'end' he chooses to be influenced and controlled by his friends and break up with you due to reasons unknown, then hell, you're better off without him. However, you said here "Me and my boyfriend of 3 months are getting on really well" - so which part of "are getting on really well" a big problem?
[shakes my head and sighs]
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