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writes:I've been in a 1 1/2 year realationship with my boyfriend and his entire family hates me I've gone as far as asking for forgiveness for what ever I did they said no we both have kids and we get along very well, lately we've been fighting a lot, I feel that our relationship is at a standstill because of it he won't even let me watch his son because it makes his parents mad I'm at a point I don't know if I should stay and keep working on it or just quit Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008): You say you approached your bf's family and asked for forgiveness and they aren't willing to give you that.
Now your bf is siding against you, with his family. That's not a good sign. He's backing away from and choosing them over his relationship with you. You can talk to him and ask why he's doing this. You can ask for his respect, his support and his devotion. But I don't think he's going to give that to you. I think you know the best thing to do. If you stay in this relationship.. there will be much more turmoil, heartache, self-doubts and deep, deep hurt, every single day..not just for you but for 'your' children, as well. If this isn't how you and your kids want to spend your time and future, then you must be prepared to give this bf his walking papers and jump into the future, the unknown, without him. Do something healthier for youand the kids.. It's your decision and your life. But isn't it time to lay claim to that, again..your life, your happiness? And when Mom is happy, her kids are as well. I wish you the best, stay strong, re-focus yourself and make a decision that makes you, and your children....happy. Good luck.
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reader, daniellexxxx  +, writes (16 April 2008):
 They must have a reason for hating you?Tell your bf to talk to them or hes going to lose you, They should but out and stop poking there noses in your buisness. If you dont get through to him suggest a move (house) if not then think it's time to walk away.Good luck.
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