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His depression causes his to drink but he claims his drinking caused him to sleep with the ex! What do I do?

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Question - (18 December 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 December 2006)
A female age 36-40, *HRISTYREDNECKHUNTER writes:

The man I'm engaged to is depressed which causes him to drink and he has told me serveral times now that he will quit drinking, well last night he got drunk and when I didn't have sex with him and turned him down he left my house and went to his families home well turns out he didn't only go there. He told me today that he slept with his ex-wife and didn't know what he was doing. The big question is should I stay with my unborn childs father and the love of my life or forget him and try to find someone better??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2006):

Oh what a PIG! Just because you turned him down he went with his ex. You are expecting his baby! NO! I wouldn't have him back in the house, once a cheat always a cheat. Boot the waste of space out. You don't go sleeping with other people because you can't get your way and especially not your ex!!!!!

GET RID!

Let us know how you get on. I hope you are ok.

Take care

xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2006):

"Better" is relative to what exactly?

Some anon members may suggest you leave for someone 'better', but really, what is 'better'?

So he made a mistake, and he admitted it to you on the spot. You say he is the love of your life (supposedly), and the father of your child. If he is indeed the love of your life, then I suggest you give him another chance.

Mind you, he should really deserve a good thousand hand slap for his misdeed.

You can give him a chance and make things work, or you can ditch the bastard and go on with your life.

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