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writes: I have been with my husband for five years and married for two. At first our relationship was great and had a lot of respect and love for eachother, but soon he started taking advantage of me financially and this year he started to act violently towards me. He has a quick temper and has showed a very nasty streak in how he talks to me. He has threatened to ruin my career as I have a good job and have worked long hours when necessary in the past. Due to this lack of respect, I have realised he cannot love me and besides I know I don't love him any more as I don't trust him due to his threats and increasing violent tendancies towards me. What do I do? It is impossible to talk to him as he only gets angry does not listen. I just want to be out of this situation. We have no children.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (19 October 2006):
 Put your money in a new bank account, pack your bags, stay with family/friends until you can get your own place. Find a lawyer and file for a legal separation. Get started today. This guy sounds psycho do not waste any time. Good luck, keep us posted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2006): Thank your lucky stars you did not have children with this animal. Get out of this abusive relatonship. You have nothing to lose.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (18 October 2006):
 He sounds like he either has started to lose his mind, or perhaps has started to do drugs.
In either case, you did not mention the kind of violence he exhibits towards you. If he is putting his hands on you, GET OUT NOW.
Best to talk to a lawyer first and find out what you need to do to protect your finances just prior to the divorce. Sometimes, all accounts will be frozen, and only the lawyers get money, while the divorcing couple gets bills but no access.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, childof1981 +, writes (18 October 2006):
 Leave this guy ASAP, you can't live life walking on eggshells and unable to talk with your own husband.
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