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writes:So yeah, I have a high sex drive and my girlfriend doesn't. I see her 3-4 days a week (every two days). We have been together for a year and a half. We usually make love every time we see each other, but when we don't I get really moody, upset and I think that im not good enough.How do I stop feeling so down when we dont make love?Please Help, Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): Maybe talk to her and explain you love having sex with her and really miss it on the occasions you don't. Perhaps she is unaware? If she isn't interested in more sex than you need to accept and learn to live with that, or find someone whose sex drive better matches your own. Generally with all couples though there are always times when one person or the other doesn't want sex. Maybe when there isn't sex you need to take your edge off by masturbating.
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reader, Cutter  +, writes (30 April 2011):
Hello,
I don't know if this will help, but I'm a girl with a sex drive that fluctuates from hero to zero depending on time of month. If you want an answer from my perspective, just because she doesn't want to make love to you all the time doesn't mean she doesn't love you, it's nothing to do with you otherwise she wouldn't do it at all. When she's not feeling up for it, why not have oral or something that's a bit more of a compromise?
Good luck with it all,
Cutter
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