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anonymous
writes:lately i haven't been seeing my boyfriend muchHes not out with some girl i no for a fact that hes with his friends. Now the one thing i want him to have is a life outside of us. But hes with his friends more than hes with me. I'm not trying to be pushy but I'd really like to see him more than once a week. I'm afraid to talk to him about this because when i do text him and hes busy he sometimes tells me. how am i supposed to know that hes busy if he doesn't answer? I assume he doesn't have his phone with him so i wait like 6 hours or so and if he doesn't answer i text him again. and he doesn't. and when he does text me he says hell either talk to me tomorrow or later that day but there have already been 2 instances where he didn't and i just sat there waiting. I don't want him to stop Wat hes doing or be demanding because 1. i don't want to be that way and 2. that's what his ex did and he broke up with her for that reason. i just dont know how to talk to him about this
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (28 August 2010):
 I thing I've learned is guys need their friends..and they're not one for talkers on the phone either. You can't tell him when he can and can't hang out with his friends..He's most likely busy doing "guy things" with his friends. Often, he can't interrupt guy time to text or call you because the guys will rag on him. Think if you're out having a girls night, wouldn't it be rude if one of the girls was constantly texting her boyfriend the whole time? Now, find some middle ground..suggest next time can you hang out with him and his friends. Get to know his friends..they're most likely not that bad. Or you could ask him to limit time with his friends to maybe 3-4 times out of the week because you don't feel like you're getting a lot of time with him.
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