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he's with another woman now..and I've suddenly realized I want him back! Why am I doing this?

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Question - (4 November 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 November 2006)
A female , *0j0 writes:

i broke up with my partner in august we had been together for 10 years but things were a bit sour. we have also 2 children together. i heard a month ago he may be seeing someone else and i felt ok then, now i have had a massive change of heart and realise i still love him to death. do you think this is just a jealous feeling or should i try and get him back??? i am so confused

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A female reader, mand +, writes (6 November 2006):

its just a case of wanting what you cant have, youll be fine in a couple of months, its just weird for you cos it was once you and him and now its him and someone else, you need to move on chuck, you would regret it if you got back together cos things would just return to how they were before, get out there and just enjoy yourself and your own freedom xxxxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2006):

well you obviously split up for a reason and if you get back together those problems will still be there.

its hard to see an ex partner that you have been with for so long with someone else, he stil feels like hes yours!.

but rest assured you too will find someone soon and youll forget all about these feelings.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2006):

Uh, you want what you cannot have....?: Ask yourself what were the big issues that made you leave him in the first place, they did not just go away because of time and distance did they? If they were really big problems then do not go after him, if it was you being superficial and bored that is another story.....not enough information to help you out here, sorry.

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