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He points out all my body flaws and it's soo hurtful! What should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend is 48. And I am getting more and more despondent and discouraged with this relationship, as time goes on. He keeps on making hurtful, digging little remarks about any flaw, on my body. I had cancer surgery back in 1993 and I have a ...

A.   6 November 2006: it makes me so mad to read to other things you have posted on this site, yes after your cancer you have been given a new lease of life so use it, i can guarantee your family and friends will be right behind you supporting you all the way, you need ... (read in full...)

he's with another woman now..and I've suddenly realized I want him back! Why am I doing this?

Q.   i broke up with my partner in august we had been together for 10 years but things were a bit sour. we have also 2 children together. i heard a month ago he may be seeing someone else and i felt ok then, now i have had a massive change of heart and ...

A.   6 November 2006: its just a case of wanting what you cant have, youll be fine in a couple of months, its just weird for you cos it was once you and him and now its him and someone else, you need to move on chuck, you would regret it if you got back together cos ... (read in full...)

He smokes weed a lot..should I just forget about him?

Q.   i like this guy alot..but he smokes weed ALOT! should i just forget about him?...

A.   6 November 2006: DONT GO THERE.......... honestly stay clear i was stuck in a relationship for 10 years with someone who did nothing but smoke weed, it just got worse and worse and worse, my life was hell he had mood swings was paranoid and most of all was just ... (read in full...)

He points out all my body flaws and it's soo hurtful! What should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend is 48. And I am getting more and more despondent and discouraged with this relationship, as time goes on. He keeps on making hurtful, digging little remarks about any flaw, on my body. I had cancer surgery back in 1993 and I have a ...

A.   6 November 2006: YOU ARE PERFECT and this is what you need to keep telling yourself the one who isnt perfect is your partner, WHO DOES HE THINK HE IS? i suppose youve had the NO MAN WILL EVER WANT YOU JAGA............ well dont you listen, you will be wanted and he ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and want to try sex with my bf...but I'm afraid!

Q.   welll im 13 and i am very grown up for my age i have bin with much older boys than me and had to pertend that im older like 15 i am with this booy i realy like him to we are getting along wiked but l8a he has bin asking me if i wanna have sex with ...

A.   6 November 2006: DONT DO IT HONEY, i was the same age as you, im 30 now and i still regret it, it haunts me, just wait a little bit longer, and if this boy insists on getting you into bed he is out of order, enjoy being a teenager a bit longer and if you mean ... (read in full...)

I'm 17 and a virgin! Is this a bad thing?

Q.   right im 17 i have only done sexual things once! and so ye im a virgin!! do you think this is kinda sad as im 17! and most people my age are sleeping around! i was to lose my virginty its just in scared and have no idea what im doing lol advice ...

A.   6 November 2006: the last thing you want to do is feel like you have to do it just because all of your friend have, just be patient and wait for the right person to come along, some one you are comfy with, you have got to think this is something you will always look ... (read in full...)

I'm 17 and pregnant! Can I legally move out and be with my bf?

Q.   can a pregnant 17 year old legally move out with her 20 year old boyfriend...

A.   6 November 2006: you sure can and if your in the uk and go to the citizens advice bureau they will advise you off what help you will get too. hope everything works out for you, im sure you will be fine when you have spoken to them.... (read in full...)

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