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writes: Hiya. I have recently developed feelings for a guy, now, it's a complicated situation: He is moving away for work and as it stands he is only here in the week anyway. He goes away for good in about 4 weeks. I normally only see him one night a week when we go up town drinking (Him with his mates, me with mine.) I've gone home with him a few times and a while ago he said he was keen to take me out etc. I was also up for this but it never got anywhere and now he says he doesn't want to get too involved as he's scared of his feelings growing and him not wanting to leave, which is fair enough but I can't stop thinkin about him! I think he tries to play a game with me as he often doesn't text me back after we've been texting for a while (Sounds lame but it's become a pattern)? And it all seems to be about sex. We had a good talk and he said that he has got feelings for me and if he were to stay he'd like to think we'd have something more serious. A part of me wants to say no to sleeping with him as in a way I feel used because he isn't the type that spills him emotions so I never know were I stand. But another part of me thinks, What the hell, make the most of it or i'll regret it. What do you think? Is there anything I can say to him to find out his intentions? He says he'll come back to visit but he doesn't seem to have anything to come back for so I may never see him again. I realise this is a long Q but please, I need your help! Grace x
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reader, becky05 +, writes (19 July 2005):
This chap is not wanting a relationship.
It would not be very sensible to start a relationship with him as he is moving away anyway.
If he had been staying close by, things may have been different, but, as it stands you will have to allow him to move on with his life and you have to move on with yours.
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