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*eresBoo
writes:Hi there,I am in a long distance relationship and so on the rare occasion we see each other, we want to make the sex as good as we can! I have only recently started to enjoy him going down on my but he is still inexperienced. Has anyone got some tips and tricks or something that they know feels amazing to share with me? I've searched high and low on the Internet and it's all the same.Thanks in advance for your time!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2015): I would also recommend the book:"The Mystery of the Undercover Clitoris: Orgasmic Fingertip Touching Every Woman Craves Paperback – by Dr. Sadie Allison"He needs to learn about female anatomy. The "vagina" isn't the vagina! There is the vulva, mons, labia and of course, the clitoris!. Know the parts! Don't dive right in! I once got "the tap" since I was only licking her vaginal opening which gave her minimal pleasure. Another time I went straight for the clitoris without any warm up!Gently kiss, lick her inner thighs. Move to the vulva and labia, using long broad tongue stokes on her lips. Once she starts moaning and getting wet, gently insert your fingers spread the lips, and start licking the inside. Work your way up to the clitoris and lick and suck gently, using her reactions as a guide for how hard and how fast. If she starts to hold your head by the ears, it means you are doing it right! Also, while I prefer hairy to shaved, a little trim helps novices find their way down there!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (17 March 2015):
 One thing, for sure. GIVE HIM FEEDBACK!!!!!
IF'n he does something you LIKE... TELL HIM!!!!..
Say something like: "OOohhhh, Hunchy-Bunchy... THAT is fantastic!!!!... DON'T STOP!!!!" (and hope that he DOESN'T (stop))....
All of us guys start out "inexperienced".... It's our GIRLFRIENDS who give us directions to get better at it!!!
Good luck...
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (17 March 2015):
 The Mystery of the Undercover Clitoris: Orgasmic Fingertip Touching Every Woman Craves Paperback – by Dr. Sadie Allison
Get that book and let him read it.
Dr. Sadie also wrote a VERY good guide on how to please a guy. (Tickle his pickle)
Though I think the alphabet idea might also work. Like SVC said, there isn't JUST one way to please ALL women orally. Each woman like different things. But it's a start.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2015): this is a great reason to begin to have open honest communication about sex...my GF and i play a silly game where i say, "which feels better...A...or ...B" it has taught me many things about what she enjoys. as mentioned by others, all women are different and talking about it is the best way to learn...together
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (17 March 2015):
 What I like done to me for oral will be different than what YOU Like.
I've heard that men learn best when taught to trace the alphabet over the clitoris.
let him do that with his tongue and when something feels good say that's it... whatever letter it is is what he should keep doing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2015): Show him how to do exactly what feels great to you.
The clitoris is really where he should focus.
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