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writes: im a virgin but my boyfriend has had sex in the past. Im really ready to have sex with him but he seems to be finding it hard to keep it up? what could be causing this? Reply to this Question
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reader, bonym  +, writes (20 May 2006):
 Anxiety or stress are the main factors why he may be having trouble in this area. Also I think someone did mention this, but drugs can also cause this problem e.g marijuana especially. Now I am not accusing him of being on drugs I am just stating a possibility. Try to find out what if anything is worrying him and make sure you are BOTH ready for sex with each other. Is is what you BOTH want? xXx
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reader, soletshearit +, writes (12 May 2006):
 If he isn't on drugs then it is probably stage fright in other words nerves...if its an ongoing problem then he should get it checked out with his doctor! Men are very proud when it comes to their little men so be gentle with him and support him because his head is gonna be melted wondering what you are thinking about this all the time...just support him and let him know that you don't think any less of him (he will probably feel that way!) Your support may even calm the nerves and the show might go on without having the visit the doc! Let me know and good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2006): i thought that only old men had problems like this. i once was with a guy that did the same thing. he really wanted to have sex but couldnt get it up. we were only in our teens and i think that it was because he was on drugs at the time or either too nervous. he was a pot smoker. i tried several things like giving him oral and it got up for a little but wasnt as stiff as normal. tell him to get off the drugs if he is on any. good luck!
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (8 May 2006):
 Lots of men have problems with erections from time to time. He could be nervous, feeling insecure about sex, smoking too much, drinking too much alcohol, stressed about something in his life...he should see a doctor if it is a persistent problem to exclude medical reasons such as prostate dysfunction.
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