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writes:I meet this guy 3 weeks before christmas he pested me for 2 weeks,i gave in and starting seeing him,he is 40 i', slightly older,he has never been married,i have been in 2 long term relationships.we meet every friday and he stays at mind.he rings me about twice in the week and txts a few times as well.one minute he says he is looking to settle down and makes hints about moving in with me,then he says no he doesnt think its for him.he is always asking me do i love him and have i been missing him,but if i ask him he wont give a answer.he is the most loving guy i have ever known and doesnt stop cuddling me,but i just dont know where all this is leading,he did tell me that it scares him the thought of living with a women.is this due to him being on his own for so long.he's not the most goodlooking guy i have been out with,but he also trys to make me jealous by saying women are always txting him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2007): I think he is so used to living a single life that he doesn't really know just what he wants. One minute it sounds great to be settled with you and the next it sounds like he is being trapped. Take a couple of steps back. Don't ask him again how he feels about you. Wait until he says. Don't be in a hurry to move in with him. Take some time to really get to know him. Some people just never manage to live with others and some cannot live without other people. He may be the first type. Be prepared.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2007): I don't know but it sounds like he is holding back for some reason, just give him some space, don't ask him all the time how he feels about you, and maybe be a little harder to get at times to keep him jumping and respectful.
Don't settle for a living together relationship, if you wait, you will get a marriage proposal and that is preferrable and what you want over living together right?
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