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writes:help! im so confused, me and my bf have been together since july, we are now engaged and movin out before march, a week after i got with him i had a chlamydia test and that came back negative, i had another one about a week after that and it came back positive, the nurse said the 1st one probably didnt pick it up because it was to early, my bf blamed it on his ex because she had cheated on him, he didnt get treatment for a week after he found out because he said he was scared! i got treatment straight away.. i had been with him for 2months when i had found out, this was in september, i recently had another test 2make sure it had gone as it can affect your fertility cant it? anyways i got a letter yesterday saying that had came bk positive! i definitely havent cheated on him! he says he swears he hasnt cheated and he said he threw up 12hours after taking the tablets, but he never told me this before, we did have protected sex 6days after he took the tablets, but this shouldnt affect it should it? all the trust has gone in our relationship and iv been totally put off sex now, i dont want to be close to anyone in that way for quite a while now. i dont no whether i can trust him now and im so confused on wht to do, he doesnt seem to take it seriously and understand hes messing with peoples lives, iv had chlamydia twice in the past 6 months with what looks like only a week clean! i need some advice on what to do.. do you think hes lying and what should i do now? pls help!
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