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writes:I'm having a problem I can't really talk to my friends or family about - so I joined this site in hopes of getting some unbiased answers. I've been with my boyfriend for about 9 months. He is totally everything that I want in a boyfriend... EXCEPT... he smokes a lot of grass. At first I thought it was just a - we were on vacation thing - but I sorta feel that he does it way more often than I even know about. I don't know if I can ask him not to smoke; or if I should just move on and keep looking for that one that is TOTALLY right for me...
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (10 December 2007):
 Most of the people that I knew that smoked a lot of weed never amounted to anything because it sucked the ambition out of them. You may have to sit him down and discuss it. Weekends? Why not. Everyday? Not a good sign. Any kind of behaviour that is addictive is not a good heads up for the future. Be careful, women do have a need to mother, take care and baby people. You have to love someone as a partner. If is not your equal, you could be straying dangerously close to the equivalent of a wounded puppy dog here. If his addiction is bad, he might want you to be there for the rest of life - to take care of him. Harsh, yes. We don't know him, or his habit, but You do. So it's totally up to you. Good luck with everything.
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reader, sweetheart22 +, writes (10 December 2007):
I think that if it is truely bugging you, you should talk to him. If he doesn't stop even if he knows that it's bothering you then you should break it off with him. Doing drugs of any kind will hurt your health. If you are in a long lasting relationship you don't want to be with someone who is rapidly losing brain cells and putting himself in danger.
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Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007): No one's perfect, can't ya love him for who he is? who cares if he smokesif it really bothers you that much ask him to cut down on it, if hes a good bf he'll try and commit to what your asking.
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reader, sexyhunnibbe001  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 ok in this world there is hardly ever a perfect guy so you either put up with it or find yourself another guy.you could attempt to talk to him about but if it bothers you that much and he's not willing to give up then eave him.hope i helped :)xxx
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