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I am involved with someone else...but my ex bf wants me to take him back. What should I do?

Q.   I asked a question on what to do when I saw my boyfriend was making life a living hell for me. Now he's back telling me he's sorry and that I should take him back. The problem now is that, I have someone else and I don't know if I still have ...

A.   30 November 2005: my sister,the guy does'nt respect you,and taking him back in ur life won't change his character. do not lose fucus, remember u can not go back to a relationship that was'nt good to you."a person without a vision will always go back to his past" ... (read in full...)

I want to ask him out... but I'm scared that he'll say no!

Q.   To put it short, guys never ask me out, and there is this guy. We smile at each other a lot but he never really talks. My mate keeps telling him to talk to me which makes it worse. But I really, really like him and have done for a while now. I don't ...

A.   30 November 2005: u afraid,u think he will say no!!!what if he i'll say yes??ok,let's assume he says no,its one problem down bcoz at least u will be knowing his position about you. again,asking him out does'nt neccesarily means proposing love to him,so i do not ... (read in full...)

He's engaged to another but says I am his soulmate...and I have strong feelings for him!

Q.   A guy I have worked with for the past year told me that he liked me and he thought i was his soulmate. The problem is that he is engaged to be married to another woman. I have very strong feelings for him.I want to tell him not to marry her! I am 33 ...

A.   30 November 2005: tricky situation indeed,you see loving someone at times is a painfull experiance because there are times that u need to love the person enough to let her/him go.my sister,face the facts,the guy is in love with his girl,the very fact that they are ... (read in full...)

I couldn't handle my friend being with someone else. Now he seems to be chasing me!

Q.   Last year I had a roommate and we became incredibly close. Nothing ever happened "technically" but we basically spent all of our time together and a lot of people thought we were together. The problem is he has a girlfriend on the other side of ...

A.   30 November 2005: he is not toying with you,believe me,he is feeling something for you its just that he is not sure if he is ready to break up with this other girl.i do not know if you have guts to ask him straight away to explain his position,somehow you need to ... (read in full...)

How can I get my parents to understand he is a genuine guy?

Q.   Hi there, I'm looking for some advice on my problem: I'm a 16 year old girl (turning 17), in high school. For the last few years ive had a really good friend, lets call him John* who lived in a different state to me (we live in Australia). Now i al...

A.   30 November 2005: Hi my sister!!! Ur parents will be mad at u bocz of ur age,its not that they do not want to see u happy,its just that they can't swallow the idea of their 16 yr old angel hanging around a guy they don't know.i'm not saying you are unable to handle a... (read in full...)

My ex hates her current relationship, but "doesn't know" about getting back with me!

Q.   Hi I have been friends with my ex-girlfriend for round about two months. Lately all the feelings I had for her back then have come back. She is in a bad relationship with this other guy, she complains about everything he does wrong to me, and...

A.   29 November 2005: boy understand ur situation,have been there myself.ask her again how she feels about you,not over the phone plzzzz.if she is not sure then it means she is not into you,she is around simple bcoz she is stresed out by her current relationship.she is ... (read in full...)

He's a great guy but I don't feel the spark, after dating for a month. How do I get out of this?

Q.   I have been dating this guy my coworker set me up with for a month. He's a great guy almost perfect really, but I just don't feel anything. He doesn't get the hint when I dodge his calls and break plans with him. He's so nice I don't want to hurt ...

A.   29 November 2005: it is obvious to me that you do not want to hurt this guy.now my best advice is that,do not waste time "the sooner the better".he will be hurt if he finds out after a long time that you are no longer interested.... (read in full...)

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