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He's confused after getting back together...can it work?

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Question - (17 July 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 July 2008)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I broke up with my boyfriend for 2 months, we got back together 3 weeks ago. Now he is confused, he does not want to get hurt again and says that people say it won't workout, it never does after a break up. He went through a very rough time after the breaking up, and when he had picked himself up again I showed up. Do you think it can work?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2008):

well, I found out that the whole truth was because he wants to be with someone else that he met while we had broke up. I wish he would had told me from the beginning.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008):

It is very difficult as I don't know what went wrong and why you broke up in the firts place;

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I do suggest you have to resolve the issues that caused the break up in the first place; if those issues are not resolved; I do believe it can cause problems in the future again.

If you both want to make the relationship work and are comitted to it; I suggest you work on what caused the problems and if need be get couple counseling to overcome the problems;

Best wishes and lots of SMILES

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008):

You give no reason for the breakup. Yes of course people break up and get back together again all the time. But if there are trust issues involved that resulted in the breakup it can be quite hard. The two of you have a lot of talking to do, he obviously in frightened about being hurt again, so something went wrong. Be gentle with each other, talk honestly and very important...tell your and his friends to shut up and mind their own business.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008):

You give no reason for the breakup. Yes of course people break up and get back together again all the time. But if there are trust issues involved that resulted in the breakup it can be quite hard. The two of you have a lot of talking to do, he obviously in frightened about being hurt again, so something went wrong. Be gentle with each other, talk honestly and very important...tell your and his friends to shut up and mind their own business.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008):

if you truly want to be together and put in some serious love,it can work out

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