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anonymous
writes:Theres this guy I have known since middle school hes incredibly handsome. Well were both about 22 and i cant stop thinking about him. I would be fine but he comes to my job at least twice a week!! and sometimes i tell him to go away in since i'll just say I have to get back to work. But lately all the girls at my job are saying hes so handsome give him a chance. Well I think he can ask me out right if he likes me? Lately I have been having dreams about him like me and him having sex. In the dream him and I are kissing and hes on top of me then puts his penis inside me and i'll wake up wet. I like him i will admit that but if he doesn't like me he needs to stop coming to my job. He just had a break up with a girl he was with for a year when he was with he barely came around. Now that they have broken up he's been coming back around. But before he was with her he would still come to my job. So for a total of about for years hes been coming around. I think he kind of asked me out a while back. He asked me to homecoming at our college and I told him no and that i have to work. Just lately he's been on my mind nonstop i want to kind of ask him out but then again. I think a guy should do that; should I just tell him I he should stop coming to my job or should i be bold and ask him out/let him know how I feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2015): Well, briefly I will say I work in mark up he's not gay so why does a guy need to come into a make up store. By the way this is the girl who wrote the post. I mean it's like well why come by it's just messing with my head and my job doesn't like when we talk to friends while on the block. And friends cannot go into the break room.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2015): If he hasn't bothered to ask you out, maybe it's because he doesn't really want to. You seem to be more fixated on the possibility; and less enthused about making it a reality.
The odds are about even. If you asked him out, he could say no. Or, he might say yes. If you play games when he's around, I see no reason why he should bother to ask.
Do you care to elaborate on why he comes around to your job? Do you provide him a service? Is he a patron? He's apparently a customer; but you imply it's about you. Please make a little more sense, so we can be sure what to tell you.
If he just broke-up with someone, he's probably not interested in a relationship; but a date might be okay.
He probably has no idea what's on your mind; but I would think a guy who's interested would have made it known.
I guess you'll have to ask him out. Nothing ventured nothing gained.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2015): No, don't ask him to stop coming to your job. That's playing games and that's mean. You can't tell him where he can and can't go. It's a public place, I assume. Furthermore, he sounds harmless and like he is good company.
Just ask him out casually. Like if you and your co workers are going out after work ask him to join you. Or if you want to hang with him privately then see if he wants to grab lunch with you sometime on your break.
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