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writes:Hi,I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and we have two children together under 2 years old. My boyfriends is always putting me down, we have no trust in each other, when we argue he always calls me horrible names. He is always saying how beautiful celebrities are on tv, but says he is not comparing me he just wants me to do more in the bedroom etc. He proposed on new years eve just gone and i said yes, now i am unsure because of the way he is, i really love him so much, but i don't know whether to leave him? but there is no trust between us, i always find myself running back to him after we have broken up in the past. please help Reply to this Question
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reader, nessabarela505  +, writes (3 March 2010):
You deserve to get married with someone that reallylove you for you and doesn't put you down. Never satisfy yourself with less, you shouldn't be having doubts to start with. How can you be with someone you have no trust in? That's a big no no. Don't feel forced to marry him because you have children together also. This sort of thing shouldn't be rushed take time to decide what you really want and how you truly feel don't be scared to look deep within you and reveal stuff and let it all out. Do what your heart tells you is right.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 March 2010):
If there is no trust, and he treats you badly, then it won't last anyway. Any relationship needs to be built on trust, understanding and love. This sounds like a nightmare, since he doesn't trust you, you don't trust him, he treats you badly and you've split up before. This is utterly doomed to fail. Leave him and focus on your own life and that of your kids.
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