He's always needing money, always questioning my feelings for him, and never wants to go out or do anything.

A female age 41-50, *uttercup76 writes:

I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 months, I love his personality and sense of humor...but seems like he never has any money and he makes more than i. he asked me a couple of weeks ago to make his house payment for him because he was three months behind, while i didnt really want to do it, i did it anyway and now i'm starting to notice other things, like him saying he couldn't come see me unless i gave him gas money, and he never wants to go out, only just to sit at my house and watch movies or get affection from me...he also depends on his mom to do his laundry and cook for him, he has no washer or dryer and only a working microwave in his house, which i cant visit right now because its winter time and he has no heat, and i have two small children that i wont take into that situation. he always depends on me to decide on what to do on weekends and anything i mention he doesn't want to because it takes money, but when i just want to spend the weekend with my kids he seems disappointed that im not paying attention to him, and he says well i'm just going to bed to sleep the day away, and it makes me feel like i should give in to him, i'm so confused with everything. he says that he loves me and that he wants a future with me, but sometime i feel like he says what he thinks i want to hear.and he is always questioning my feelings for him, if i love him, or if i think things feel right between us, i get tired of explaining and reassuring, its exhausting. He does make me laugh and he is very affectionate and is good to my kids... I just need advice...I feel like i'm being tested all the time. Any one who can help me, i appreciate the advice.

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