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He's a good friend, and we've been out together. But how can I persuade him to make it a proper date?

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Question - (14 July 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 July 2006)
A female , *heekyfairy writes:

I broke up with my boyfriend of 10 years a month ago and I was very depressed. A friend of mine (we were not close) offered to keep me company, so that I wouldn't dwell on the past. He offered thrice and I eventually took up the offer and we went for a few meals and movies.

I really enjoy his company and I think I have gradually grown very fond of him. However, he rarely makes the first move in initiating an appointment with me. I ask him and he says yes and thereupon he will come to my place to pick me up despite the commuting distance. He also offers to pay for food and movies and he even agrees to go out of town with me on a snorkeling trip. I'm unsure if he's interested in me. How do I coax him into making the first move for an official date?

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A female reader, cheekyfairy +, writes (14 July 2006):

cheekyfairy is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for the advice.

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A female reader, bodylotion +, writes (14 July 2006):

bodylotion agony auntI think this so called freind is just using you for one thing.Not meaning to offend you or upset you but it is a large posibility.Dont make any sudden moves on this guy you just broke up with your boyfreind.Enjoy your bit of time you have to yourself and to give yourself time to think over your breakup.Dont rush into a sudden relationship.

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