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writes:hey guysIve been split with my girlfriend for a few weeks now, we seem able to get along well as friends on th odd occasion we bump into each other. We agree that we dont want to be with each other (13months was more than enough at my age (18)) she's now gone back to her old ways of sleeping around with anyone who's willing. This hurts me, im not sure where this feeling is coming from, either from a territorial stand point or a protective on (i dont want to see her messed about). Seeing that i dont want a gf/bf thing with her id say i dont want to see lads treat her like a piece meat. How do i surpress these feelings? and should i talk to her about her promiscuity?cheers
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (28 April 2008):
 Poster, you won't like this, but I think you're "off-side". Your relationship with her is over, and therefore you can't give any opinions about what she does or who she does it with. It's sad but, if other men are treating her like a piece of meat, she's consenting to it. She knows what she wants for herself, I assume. You should move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): You pretty much have disclosed what you don't like about her, and this is normally something no one wants for a partner; unreliable and not bright enough to know their behavior can have terrible consequences to themselves and their partner. Good that you've recognized this. Time for you to move on and gorget her; shes a danger to your security and trust.
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