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writes: Today I got a text from my friend. She hardly texts me, but today she told me to go to her house for the first time. I got worried so forgot about my plans and went to hers. I went into her room and she was crying. She was really upset. She said her boyfriend doesn't understand her, she has school work to do whereas he goes to college and is free. She cannot meet him every day, but when she can he goes to play football on purpose to annoy her.Today I told her not to break up, but give him a chance and chat. As soon as I got home she text me saying she broke up. He went to her house so she had chance to dump him.In the text she said she's really empty, and she still loves him. What can I do in this situation? I will see her at school. I think she has done the right thing, but I don't want her to regret it!She also thanked me for being at her house for 3 hours while she was crying. She said she feels she has a brother to talk to, so I'm happy to help her. What can I do to help? She is devastated.
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (16 November 2006):
 She is really lucky to have such a brilliant friend. The best thing you can do, you are doing already. She will get over it, but it takes time. Its really hard to mend a heart thats broken. But she will get back to herself in no time. Just make sure she keeps busy, and try to distract her from getting depressed.
WELL DONE if only there were more like you xx
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (16 November 2006):
 i really admire ur courage to help ur friend, she really needed u and u were there i think what u need to do is to keep being there for her when she need u, let her know that she tried what she can to make this work but it was just not meant to be, and let her cry until she feels okay its good for her. u both knew the bf was just not there physically and emotionally he was totaly unavailable i think that should be reason enough for her to know she didnt make a mistake dumping him, she deserve someone who understand her schedules not someone who wants her to be available when it suits him when it suits them both he punishes her. im glad she has a friend like u keep it up
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