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writes:Ok, So of course.. there is this guy i like.. we dated on and off for about a year... (mostly on if your wondering). and we broke up like five months ago.. i was dating another guy and he was dating another girl. well me and him remained friends and still are today.. and i realized not to long ago that i still love him. but here is where it gets confusing i am not sure about telling him i love him because then knowing him he won't talk to me much afterwords to prevent himself from tempting to like me again. Now.. i live on one side of the country and this guy lives on the complete opposite side of the country.. and i have told myself time after time why waste your time on long distance.. don't do it.. but i can't help it.. and i'd rather him be happy with her than ever be burdened by knowing that i like him and us stop talking... so i was wondering am i doing the right thing by not telling him?
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (18 June 2008):
 if he is already in a relationship then there is no point in telling him. you know you dont want to ruin his relationship or your friendship just because you want to be with him, so try and let it go. if somewhere down the line you both end up single, then you could tell him how you feel, but be sure not to tell him right after a breakup.
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