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writes:So this might end up being really long but please bare with me I need help! Ever since 3 years ago me and this one guy I know have been friends. We've been through quite a bit.But the first year while we were still in high school me and him didn't get along that well he would kinda make fun of me and such. But after that first year he went through a situation that made hime realize his real friends and I was one of them. We've been reall good friends ever since and the more we hung out the more i fell for him. He's not that great of a person to others but he's the biggest sweetheart I know. Not to long ago he got into a dirt bike accident and I was the only one there to witness it and since then it's like I reallized how much he meant in my life. I felt like I almost died when he wrecked. I've always been scared to tell him how i feel b/c i don't want things to change or me make a fool of myself. But the other night he did a little drunk dial and called me while he was intoxicated. He told me how he feels about me and I really couldn't believe it. Drunken words are sober thoughts right?? yea well I'm already in a relationship with someone that makes me happy but lately it seems like he tries to push me away. We don't talk we don't play or even laugh like we did before. I have mixed emotions for him right now. Is it because of this other guy or am I really losing love for my boyfriend? I don't know what I'm feeling. Does my heart lie with my current boyfriend whom I think is the love of my life or does it lie more with the friend that pulled a drunk dial on me?
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reader, rcn +, writes (16 December 2008):
 Let me ask you something, and this I want you to think about. If someone is "truly" the love of your life, would your heart ever question it?
Figuring out your heart, I want you to focus on your true feelings without thought. What is always true is how you really feel. What confuses it is when you let your thoughts attempt to justify your feelings.
I think you may be with one, wanting to be with the other, but know either way the other person may end up hurt by your decision. This creates confusion because you're not someone who sets out to cause harm to someone else.
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