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Help me save my relationship!

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Question - (25 December 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 December 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *addybear writes:

Please help me! Me and my gf have been 2geva 4 nearly 5 years, we have a briliant relationship, wel that is wen she ay got her cell phone in her hand, she wont tell me what she doing and who she texts, she has a password on it to. She says she not in contact with her ex bf but I no she is cuz I seen her with him, when I askd why she was with him she denyd it, she cheated on me with him in the past btw. She neva has time 4 me and always makes excuses nt to have a kiss or cuddle, its like I dnt exsist any mre. We have sex sumtimes wen she in the mood and she lies about stupid little things it annoys me.

I really love her to bits and wana spend rest of my life with her but I need advise on how to handle this please help

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A male reader, Daddybear United Kingdom +, writes (26 December 2011):

Daddybear is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Is that what I'm doing you think? I dont know what to do? Please help me!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2011):

Love? What love indeed?

Your gf is cheating on u, she has NO respect for u and she cares nothing of the lies she spins to u.

So she is doing the deed with another man and now u still question whether her ex is lieing???

U follow her and she disappeares into an unknown car and u are none the wiser?

Password protected cell, lies, disrespect and evidence of cheating. Hey if this doesn't get u to make a decion, nothing will. U can continue to be walked all over by your gf or grow some and get rid of her.

LoveGirl

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A male reader, Daddybear United Kingdom +, writes (26 December 2011):

Daddybear is verified as being by the original poster of the question

She says she loves me and doesn't want to hurt me ever again, she wants us to get married.

Her ex bf came to visit today and said he had oral in his car with my girl.

Noow my girlfriend doesn't even do that with me.

Should I belive him?

She never used to have a password on her phone, not until couple weeks ago when I noticed a text message on the screen saying, don't forget to be at a certain place at a certain time, she went mad, so she went to meet this person, so I followd, I know I should not have, but I love her so much I don't want to lose her, she got into a car and drove of, I didn't reconise the car.

m at a lost end and don't know what to do. HELP

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