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30-35,
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writes:I am at uni and am mad about my male housemate. It is getting to the point where I feel I definately need to say something as its doing my head in. We have lived together for nearly a year now, and had casual drunken sex numerous times through out the year and a few times sober. He makes jealous remarks if I see any other guy and the last time he went out I heard him come back drunk and start saying to the boys he was with that 'the love of my life is in that room' whilst banging on my door. But a) i dont know if he feels the same andb)i dont know how the hell to go about saying it without scaring him off. I havent got long left living with him so it shouldnt make things too awkward if he rejects me. I dont want to jump into a relationship with him, just let him know I like him more than casual sex(that im not using him for sex) and how much i like him without scaring him off. any advice on whether u think hes into me or how i can go about telling him would be great :) thank you xxxx
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (28 March 2011):
 Perhaps you could share a meal with him and tell him. However you decide to go about it just do not be afraid. There really isn't a right or wrong way to tell him how you feel about him nor is there a chance in the world that this could get uncomfortable, what with you only having a limited amount of time left with him. Whatever you do though, make sure you are both sober when you tell him.
I hope that helps.
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