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writes:I Love My Boyfriend and everything and were both 12 BUT The other day we started to make out and he took it a bit far... He started to feel my body and he started with my neck and worked his way down to my gentals and placed his fingers inside and I took them out and he wanted me to do something to him soo I gave him a Handjob but I dont feel like Its the right age to be doing This!! He wants to Do it again and I dont mind but It hurt last time he did it!!Any Ideas!!??
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2007): Vina is right on target with her advice, hun and I hope you are taking note. Dear, you are right, 12 years old is 'not the right age' to be sexually experimenting. This is the age you should be focused on friends and just enjoying your carefree youth. What you ran into with this boy, is a load of sexual pressure and let me say, no one has the right to touch you in any way you felt uncomfortable with. If all what he did makes you feel hurt physically , then you are likely feeling emotional pain-that tells you you are too young to be dabbling in sex play. This is not a boy who clearly respected you, nor does he love you in the way adults love each other in grown up relationships. If you told him 'no' he should've respected that. need to start standing up for yourself and be a strong person...not hand over your dignity and self respect just to have a bf. No female should allow herself to get into this type of situation when she's so unsure. Learn that now...if any male does not show you respect, you leave them in the dust. This is a good lesson to learn for all future relationships yet to come that you will encounter as you grow older. Believe me, this boy will not be your last bf.
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (12 February 2007):
 DO NOT do anything you are not comfortable doing. If you don't want to do it don't do it. Please don't let him force you to do anything. If you feel that something is not right then it probably isn't. You are right, at 12 you shouldn't be doing that sort of thing. You are not ready, no wonder you feel uncomfortable.
Please tell your boyfriend that you don't want to do that sort of thing anymore and that you are not ready for that. You say you don't mind doing it again but I think that is just a case of you wanting to please him and by doing so, compromising on what you want. Don't go along with things just because you think he wants it. You have to do whats right for you as well. So the next time you see your boyfriend please tell him that you would rather not do those things. ok? xxx
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