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30-35,
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writes:me and my friend were drunk and had sex, and i didnt think anything of it. but now she is litteraly obsessed with me, and i dont have feelings for her like that.i cant tell her i dont like her that ship has sailed,and idk what else i can possibly do....
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (19 July 2010):
 You just need to sit her down, be sympathetic, stress that you wanna be friends, but that the sex was a mistake and you don't want to be anything other than friends. Sounds to me like she secretly liked you, and took the sex as proof that you liked her back, and now isn't shy about showing her feelings because she thinks you feel the same. Don't do it again because it wasn't fair on her and has put you in a very difficult position!
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reader, vicky121087 +, writes (19 July 2010):
hi, i think you should sit down together and just tell her the truth about how you feel
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010): Oh dear. It seems that there was confusion about what having sex would mean. For you it was just sex, for her it was more.
I think it might be best to just be honest with her. You could say something like, "I'm sorry if you got the wrong impression about what happened, but I don't have any romantic feelings towards you. I don't want anything more." It might be upsetting for her, but at least she will know and she will be in a better position to try and handle it. x
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