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female
age
30-35,
*dvicer96
writes:Ive started liking this guy, i cant decide wheather its me actually likng him or the thought of being with him. The problem is i dont think ill ever be able to show him i like him, or if i even have a chance with him. Hes in the 'cool boy' clang at school. He isnt the best looking boy but he is very nice and i am very easily attracted to him.I dont think he has ever has a girlfriend so i assume he is pretty shy when it comes to girls.The problem is im good friends with his friends but not him because he tends to be in none of my lessons, therefor ive never really had the chance to get to know him. I flirt with his friends all the time, but im scared this will make me seem like not a nice person or will give him a wrong judgement of character. I know i need to get to know him better, ive only spoke to him a few times. Hes going to the same party as me in a few weeks. Please can i have your opinion on this and advice what to do. :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 October 2012):
 Well really the only thing you can do here now is to make an effort to get to know him. If you want him to take you serious then I would suggest stop flirting with his friends, as yes you are right it may give him the wrong impression of you and make him feel like you are just a flirt with everyone.
At this party I suggest you make an effort to go up and talk to him. Ask him maybe if he would like to dance, or go and grab a drink together, anything at all to show that you are wanting to spend some time with him. When you get a conversation going, just try to get to know him, ask him questions about himself, smile and use eye contact. Just try and relax and have a laugh with him, if it goes well then just tell him you really enjoyed your conversation and ask him would he like to hang out together some time or exchange numbers.
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