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Help! What should I do if I see him around when I visit?

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Question - (20 October 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 October 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Can you help me figure out what to do? I like this guy who i used to know at school. He has a funny sense of humour ! We are on each others friends lists on facebook. I was online very late at night once, well actually, it was the early hours of the morning. All of a sudden, his name came up on the instant messenger on facebook, and he had sent an explicit message. he asked if i would give him oral sex and said " i bet you want to " and he said " why text ? " I was shocked so i didn't reply. He was in a relationship for a while, he wasn't with his girlfriend then though. They have been on and off for a while.

He created this group about himself for a laugh and he said that when a certain number of members had joined, he would give them a prize. I joined for a laugh and i was the person who was supposed to win the " prize " lol, and he said " one lucky lady has won a date with me ". i'm assuming he meant the person who had just joined , but how did he know it was a lady who had just joined, unless he had been keeping a close eye on the people who joined, and why would he put that a date was the prize ?. He was back with his girlfriend at that point, but i have noticed since then that they have broke up again, so he is single at the moment. Also, he would know which country my favourite band is from, as i post about them a lot on my page, and on his group about himself, he put that one of the places he performed ( he pretends he is a performer who goes on tour ) was the country my favourite band is from. He didn't mention any other countries, so i'm not sure if that's a coincidence, or if there is some sort of meaning to that.

Lol i know all this might sound confusing, but i'm not sure what to do. I'm actually going to his home town soon and i might see him around as it's a very small area. We used to live near each other, so some of the places i might be going to used to be my local, and they are still his local places as he still lives there. I'm wondering what to do if i see him around ?

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (21 October 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntFacebook stalker alert!

Sorry dear but this guy sounds like a creepster..stalking your Facebook, memorizing your profile, and asking you for oral sex. What the hell? If you saw him in person, I would run the other way because he's not all together there in the head.

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