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anonymous
writes:Right where to begin...... i was in college 4 years ago and met this lad who became one of my very best friends, i started seeing his best friend who is now my bf of 3 years.my bf has changed and has been being really nasty to me and my friend (bf's best friend) comforted me and i took advantaage of it i know stupid me ! anywayz i am madly in love with this friend and cant imagine my life without him....he feels the same but we dont want to hurt my bf who i have now gone on a break with because i tried breaking up with him but he just started crying and i turned weak.my bf has admited that he has changed and will try again to make things right but all i can think about is this lad that i have always loved from afar until recently can some body please help me i feel so lostthanks xx please no lectures on the cheating i had that a few months ago on here when this all started
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reader, Lee-Doll  +, writes (19 January 2008):
 It really seems like a tough thing to succeed at, in these cases. But it seems to me that you have two choices. A) Stay with your current boyfriend- He seems to really love you if he's willing to change back to what he was for you- but chances are he'll change again nonetheless. B) go out with his best friend- You love him and he loves you- though your bf will be hurt for a while, he'll understand eventually.
Hey, maybe he's still got his miss perfect out there. If he looses you, he'll be one step closer to finder her.
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reader, Lee-Doll +, writes (19 January 2008):
It really seems like a tough thing to succeed at, in these cases. But it seems to me that you have two choices. A) Stay with your current boyfriend- He seems to really love you if he's willing to change back to what he was for you- but chances are he'll change again nonetheless. B) go out with his best friend- You love him and he loves you- though your bf will be hurt for a while, he'll understand eventually.
Hey, maybe he's still got his miss perfect out there. If he looses you, he'll be one step closer to finder her.
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