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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,I have been in my relationship with my husband for 12 years. We have no children. The problems I am having are really crushing this relationship and I simply do not know what to do. He likes to drink for one thing, and alot more than I would like. He even stays after work to drink with his co workers and then drives home after having a few. By the time he gets home to me, there is no way I can even be with him because we are both on a different page. He always makes promises that I know now that he is not going to stick to. I am left feeling like I am the last person he wants to spend his time with. While all the other peoples husbands are coming home at night to be with their wives, mine is no place to be found. I just don't know what I should do any more. I have talked to him about this for years but he just wont stop. It is really hurting me. I feel neglected and alone most of the time. He defends his actions rather than try to fix them. I have offered him boys nights out and everything but he wants things his way, so I am stuck with what I can get. I am starting to consider divorce and I really was not trying to go that route. What should I do???
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