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writes:This guy I like is almost 16 in september and i'm 17. Do you think that he would act differnetly towards a girl he liked because hes younger? He likes me but he doesn't talk to me anymore and I don't know why he would be playing mood games with me. he's been acting like an immature guy. Maybe he thinks that I'm to cool for him because i'm a junior and hes a freshman. How do I know that he really likes me still?He won't tell me if something's bothering him, how can I know for sure that something is bothering him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): Girls always mature faster than boys so even if he was older than you, you'd still be more mature than him, but i still think he's not out the closet yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): He might just be more shy than you, or he might be opposite and not come out the closet yet lol.
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (26 May 2009):
Things he do will be immature to you, maybe he cant adjust to what you want it to be? Some guys just arent ready for it.
Maybe its not the age it may just be that hes leading his own life and he feels hes doing no wrong? Guys can sometimes be oblivious to the damage they cause, why not try talking to him? If hes not willing to give you the tme of day then you know hes not worth it. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect whatever the issues may be. He may not talk because hes moved on? Or he feels you have, so many questions but no answers, youll never really know until you ask him yourself. If you want the truth then go get it the only way you can.
After time you start to see people differently, what you once saw fades and its a differnt person, you question everything but im afraid it falls that way at some point in life.
If he wont tell you how can you help?
He may just be stuck in his ways, you cant force him, its your choice youve waited and got nothing so its time to take action.
Sometimes its just not meant to be for all the right reasons. The hardest thing to do is accept that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): If he's not really talking to you or asking you out, wanting to be around you, I'd assume he doesn't like you that much. It's not the age thing or that you're too cool, not everyone that we like is gonna like us back. Nothing's bothering him would be my guess- he's probably just living his life and seems to me you aren't a part of it.
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