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writes:I have been married for 11 years with 3 kids.About 4 years ago i met this guy and it was like we were made to be together. It took him over a year to kiss me and 6 months later we made out and that has been all we have done for over 2 years we have not had sex. He lives with his girlfriend and me my husband. I love my husband and can't leave my kids but I have fallen in love with him and He really cares for me. i know it's wrong but when I am happy.Help me. What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): You have to decide either your husband or your boyfriend. its not fair to your huband and most of all your kids if you dont decide soon itll hurt more when it all comes out. and have you thought that maybe you cant leave your husband cause deep down inside you know its wrong think about it.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (16 December 2008):
 So he won't leave his girlfriend, you won't leave your husband. Theres been no sex yet. I think if the time comes when you take that next step, then the complications will come with it, they always do. Just be very careful, because if you husband does find out about any of this, then you won't get that choice as to not leave him, he could well leave you. No one can tell you to stop seeing this other man, you are both consenting adults and he is bringing something in to your life that you maybe don't get with your husband. I just hope that you don't get hurt by it all, because the day may come when a big decision has to be made and are you ready for the consequences of what you are getting in to. good luck, hope this helps.
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