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writes:i met my boyfriend about 3 springs ago this spring.... well fell in love almost right away....he has a girlfriend who he has 2 kids with their young,....but he wont leave her right now because of court and her acknowledgements he works and suppports his family own his own house she doesnt have a job and goes to beauty school he doesnt mess aorund with her hes been slleping on the couch at his own home for about 4 yrs. the was in the situation when i mnet him between him and "baby momma who does not know about me and him i am not friends with this women but he wants to be with me and i wanrt to be with him weve been through alkot together he worth the wait the question is am i waiting for something.......i feell like im the only one who is going thru this..,.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (8 May 2010):
He's never going to leave. He's just using you for sex. Find a single man who has no baggage. Not a man cheating on the mother of his children.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (8 May 2010):
 No, he's not worth waiting for.
If he can't get it together enough to get his own place and decide clearly that he wants to be with you, he is not the man for you. Don't get it twisted, he is with her. (If I had a nickel for every guy that said he was "sleeping on the couch" when he was still in an ACTUAL RELATIONSHIP I'd be rich.) After three years he should have made some type of commitment to you. The fact that you're still hanging on as just a side piece in the background should tell you all you need to know.
Good luck.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 May 2010):
 He has a lot of baggage and it can be a long and weary journey together.
Are you sure you can carry his heavy burdens? You can't have him all to yourself and you will have to share him with the other .
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